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A Message From Rev. Cecil Fike
The Good Grief Workbook is designed to be used in eight
sessions. Each session includes well-organized lessons on specific
topics that are relevant to the grief process, along with homework
assignments and journaling suggestions relating to the topic for that session.
Session 1
will be an introductory meeting when an overview of the groups
and the philosophy of the leaders will be given to the group members. It
should be a time when leaders introduce themselves, their own grief
experiences and their goals for the group. It will also be the time
when members introduce themselves, tell their stories and share their
goals for the group. This is often the most intense meeting as they not
only tell their story but also hear the intense grief of others. However,
it provides the basis for all the following meetings.
Session 2 (Understanding the Grief Process)
looks at the grief process
as defined by Granger Westberg in his book,
Good Grief. It will be a
time for discussion of normal and abnormal grief experiences.
Session 3 (Tasks of Grieving)
will look at the "Four Tasks of Grieving"
as outlined by J. William Worden in his book Grief Counseling and
Grief Therapy. Special attention is given to adjusting to the physical
and emotional changes brought on by the loss.
Session 4 (Attributes of Healthy Grieving)
examines the causes of the
varying amounts of difficulty experienced by different persons, depending
upon the circumstances of the loss and the member's grief history.
Session 5 (Children's Grief)
is designed to help members recognize
the uniqueness of children's grief and to learn ways to help them
with their grief work.
Session 6 (Sudden Death)
looks at the unique grief process resulting
from sudden or catastrophic losses. External factors such as media
coverage and legal activities can prolong the grief process. This
session is designed to help members recognize and cope with these factors.
Session 7 (Stress Management)
includes information on the effects of the
stress caused by grieving and its relationship to one's
health. The materials include suggestions for managing the
stress and maintaining a healthy life style.
Session 8 (Holidays and Anniversaries)
helps the members look at special
days and help them discover healthy ways for dealing with these emotionally
charged special times.
Each group can be designed to best meet the needs of the participants and
the organization that is sponsoring the groups. Sessions can be conducted
in consecutive weekly meetings, a weekend retreat setting, monthly meetings,
or specifically designed to best suit any circumstances.
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