I finally had a free hour to look over the workbook on Good Grief... and have a free moment to write and tell you how impressed I am with it. It is comprehensive and it is wonderfully focused on what grieving individuals need to think about and do. It is clearly the work of someone who understands the grieving soul. I loved the way it assures people that much of what they are going through is normal, and gives them clues as to when they are healing and when they are stuck.
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Rabbi Harold S Kushner
Author of When Bad things Happen to Good People
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"Grief is a necessary part of emotional healing. The grief process
is difficult. The emotional wounds are deep and painful. Our
Pastoral Care Ministry has utilized a helpful tool to those who
are grieving. It is a well thought out program to help people
realize that there are good ways to grieve. The
workbook and
program, aptly titled Good Grief by
Cecil W. Fike, have ministrered
well at our church. I would encourage churches that do not have
a grief ministry to prayerfully consider using it."
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Dr. Charles Stanley
Senior Pastor of First Baptist Church of Atlanta
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"I am very pleased to give an endorsement of Good Grief. As the chaplain
and bereavement coordinator of WellStar Community Hospice, I have seen the
benefits to grieving friends and family members on a first-hand basis. I
am a Good Grief group leader and was able to witness the healing of mind
and spirit in many group participants over the six-week support groups I
led. Folks moved from being nearly incapacitated by their grief to being
able to give love and comfort to each other in the group as well as
becoming more functional in their personal and work lives.
Good Grief is a vital part of Hospice's year-long program of bereavement
care. We would be severly handicapped if it were not available to Hospice
families. I have found that the most profound healing comes as people
wounded by grief reach out to each other in a guided group support
setting. Bravo to Cecil Fike
for creating Good Grief!"
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Chaplain Ed Cook
Chaplain & Bereavement Coordinator
Wellstar Community Hospice
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"For several years, I have used the Good Grief manual
by Cecil Fike in grief
support groups at First Baptist Church of Atlanta. The material
in this resource is very comprehensive. It has served our
members very effectively. I find two strong points about the
material. First, the emphasis on the journal has been highly
praised by our members. Second, it allows you to incorporate your
Biblical and theological perspectives into the material and the
group process. I highly recommend the use of this as one resource
in your grief groups or individual grief counseling.
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Danny M. Brett, MDiv
Minister of Pastoral Care
First Baptist Church of Atlanta
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A Facilitator's Reflections on Good Grief:
It's a particularly dark fall night as I drive home from the third
session of Good Grief. Thoughtfully, I review the circle
of people I have just spent the last two hours with. Their faces
stand out in my imagination
as I drive. What I have come to call "the Good Grief Magic" is happening
again. We are only half way through our six week commitment, and the face's
that were so fill with tangible pain are beginning to soften. "We dared to
share with strangers what we could not share with friends" is the deep-down
truth of a poem I read to every beginning group. It's the deep-down truth
of why this structured grief support group is an agent of healing for so many
different types of people. We risk. We share. We learn. We heal...
together. And strangers become friends.
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Kathleen D. Michaud, M.A.,L.M.F.T
Good Grief Facilitator - 5 years
St. Ann's Catholic Church, Marietta, GA
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